Absence of Proof Website

Absence of Proof Bottle Shop

Preorder Tawny's Book, Dry Humping

Join Absence of Proof, Forme, and Tawny Lara for an intimate discussion around dating and sex without alcohol. Included in your ticket: - Goodie bag with sexual wellness products - Unlimited non-alcoholic cocktails & more! - Copy of Tawny's book, Dry Humping: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the BoozeAbout Our Hosts:<ul><li>Absence of Proof is a non-alcoholic social option for anyone taking a night, week, or lifetime off of drinking. Founded in NYC, we are passionate about curating social experiences and connection without the alcohol.</li><li>Forme brings certified experts into curated, community-based spaces to surface conversations traditionally considered taboo. Through education, intimate discussion, and anonymized Q&A, Forme empowers women to view sexual health and pleasure as an integral part of their mental and physical wellness practice.</li><li>Tawny Lara (AKA The Sober Sexpert) is an advice columnist and author of Dry Humping: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the Booze. She co-hosts the Signal Award-winning “Best Buddy” podcast, Recovery Rocks. Subscribe to her weekly advice column, Beyond Liquid Courage, about all things sober dating and relationships.</li></ul>On Our Panel:<ul><li>Tawny Lara (see above for description)</li><li>Mara Koval</li><li>Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT (she/her) is a distinguished psychotherapist and renowned speaker with expertise in modern relationships, mental health, and sex. Her mission is to help people live happier, healthier lives by providing insights and practical advice in a relatable and engaging way.</li></ul>Please note (IMPORTANT):This event is 21+.All drinks offered will be below 0.5% ABV (non-alcoholic). Some drinks will utilize non-alcoholic spirits that mimic the taste and aroma of alcohol, without the intoxicating effects. If you are in recovery or are potentially triggered by the taste of alcohol, please do not consume these beverages.Our events also mimic the environment of a bar (music, socializing, and may be held in venues that otherwise serve alcohol). If this is triggering, please do not attend.If you are pregnant or nursing, please consult with your healthcare provider before consuming any of our beverages. Your doctor can provide personalized advice based on your individual circumstances.Our beverages are not guaranteed to be Halal or Vegan. Upon request, we are happy to provide full ingredient lists.We understand that everyone has unique preferences and dietary requirements and our number one priority is respecting your individual choices. We encourage you to reach out to us with any questions or concerns that may not have been addressed here.By entering an event or program of Absence of Proof, you are entering an area where photography, audio and video recording may occur.Your entry and presence on the event premises constitutes your consent to be photographed, filmed, and/or otherwise recorded and to the release, publication, exhibition, or reproduction of any and all recorded media of your appearance, voice, and name for any purpose whatsoever in perpetuity in connection with Absence of Proof and its initiatives, including, by way of example only, use on websites, in social media, news and advertising.By entering the event premises, you waive and release any claims you may have related to the use of recorded media of you at the event, including, without limitation, any right to inspect or approve the photo, video or audio recording of you, any claims for invasion of privacy, violation of the right of publicity, defamation, and copyright infringement or for any fees for use of such record media.You understand that all photography, filming and/or recording will be done in reliance on this consent. If you do not agree to the foregoing, please do not enter the event premises.

Love Unfiltered: Dating, Sex & Intimacy Without Alcohol

Bottleshop

Y7 Website

Join Absence of Proof and Y7 for an evening of unlimited non-alcoholic beverages &amp; hot yoga. We'll begin the night with an hour of social connection then we'll head into an hour long hot yoga class !See you there! :) About Y7:Y7 is a national yoga brand known for its sweat-dripping, beat-bumping, candlelit yoga. All studios are heated to 80-90 degrees using state-of-the-art infrared technology, which helps create a detoxifying sweat that stimulates blood circulation and increases flexibility.About Absence of Proof: Absence of Proof is a non-alcoholic social option for anyone taking a night, week, or lifetime off of drinking. Founded in NYC, we are passionate about curating social experiences and connection without the alcohol.Please note (IMPORTANT):This event is 21+.All drinks offered will be below 0.5% ABV (non-alcoholic). Some drinks will utilize non-alcoholic spirits that mimic the taste and aroma of alcohol, without the intoxicating effects. If you are in recovery or are potentially triggered by the taste of alcohol, please do not consume these beverages.Our events also mimic the environment of a bar (music, socializing, and may be held in venues that otherwise serve alcohol). If this is triggering, please do not attend.If you are pregnant or nursing, please consult with your healthcare provider before consuming any of our beverages. Your doctor can provide personalized advice based on your individual circumstances.Our beverages are not guaranteed to be Halal or Vegan. Upon request, we are happy to provide full ingredient lists.We understand that everyone has unique preferences and dietary requirements and our number one priority is respecting your individual choices. We encourage you to reach out to us with any questions or concerns that may not have been addressed here.By entering an event or program of Absence of Proof, you are entering an area where photography, audio and video recording may occur.Your entry and presence on the event premises constitutes your consent to be photographed, filmed, and/or otherwise recorded and to the release, publication, exhibition, or reproduction of any and all recorded media of your appearance, voice, and name for any purpose whatsoever in perpetuity in connection with Absence of Proof and its initiatives, including, by way of example only, use on websites, in social media, news and advertising.By entering the event premises, you waive and release any claims you may have related to the use of recorded media of you at the event, including, without limitation, any right to inspect or approve the photo, video or audio recording of you, any claims for invasion of privacy, violation of the right of publicity, defamation, and copyright infringement or for any fees for use of such record media.You understand that all photography, filming and/or recording will be done in reliance on this consent. If you do not agree to the foregoing, please do not enter the event premises.We're sorry, we're not able to issue refunds for this event.

Absence of Proof x Y7

Absence of Proof In the News

Ice Cold Club Website

Join Absence of Proof and Ice Cold Club for an evening of breath work, mocktails, and cold plunging. About Ice Cold Club: Purposefully stress the nervous system to better handle stress in your everyday life — after taking you through a breath work experience to prepare you to handle the stress of the ice, Nike Trainer and XPT Coach Lauren Schramm will guide you through a 3 to 6-min exposure in the tubs out on the roof. Unlimited mocktails provided :)! See you there!Please note (IMPORTANT):This event is 21+.All drinks offered will be below 0.5% ABV (non-alcoholic). Some drinks will utilize non-alcoholic spirits that mimic the taste and aroma of alcohol, without the intoxicating effects. If you are in recovery or are potentially triggered by the taste of alcohol, please do not consume these beverages.Our events also mimic the environment of a bar (music, socializing, and may be held in venues that otherwise serve alcohol). If this is triggering, please do not attend.If you are pregnant or nursing, please consult with your healthcare provider before consuming any of our beverages. Your doctor can provide personalized advice based on your individual circumstances.Our beverages are not guaranteed to be Halal or Vegan. Upon request, we are happy to provide full ingredient lists.We understand that everyone has unique preferences and dietary requirements and our number one priority is respecting your individual choices. We encourage you to reach out to us with any questions or concerns that may not have been addressed here.By entering an event or program of Absence of Proof, you are entering an area where photography, audio and video recording may occur.Your entry and presence on the event premises constitutes your consent to be photographed, filmed, and/or otherwise recorded and to the release, publication, exhibition, or reproduction of any and all recorded media of your appearance, voice, and name for any purpose whatsoever in perpetuity in connection with Absence of Proof and its initiatives, including, by way of example only, use on websites, in social media, news and advertising.By entering the event premises, you waive and release any claims you may have related to the use of recorded media of you at the event, including, without limitation, any right to inspect or approve the photo, video or audio recording of you, any claims for invasion of privacy, violation of the right of publicity, defamation, and copyright infringement or for any fees for use of such record media.You understand that all photography, filming and/or recording will be done in reliance on this consent. If you do not agree to the foregoing, please do not enter the event premises.We're sorry, we're not able to issue refunds for this event.

Ice Cold Club x Absence of Proof

AOP Website

AOP News

Release Foundation Website

Stream Eva Westphal’s EP

We're so excited to announce the collaboration between Release Foundation & Absence of Proof. Join us for an evening at Twenty Three Grand with:<ul><li>Unlimited zero-proof cocktails from Curious Elixirs, Betty Buzz & Sarilla</li></ul><ul><li>Live music by Eva Westphal</li></ul><ul><li>Delicious dessert options</li></ul>Can't wait to see you all there! xxAbout Absence of Proof:Absence of Proof is a non-alcoholic event curation company and online bottle shop that focuses on bringing non-alcoholic nightlife options to those looking to not consume alcohol that night for any reason.About Release Foundation:The Release Foundation is a 501(c)3 nonprofit dedicated to ensuring all who are ready and willing to seek professional treatment are able. Substance use disorder and mental illness destroys the lives of too many people from underserved communities who may not have the resources for proven treatments. The Release Foundation offers scholarships to bridge the gap between what people can afford and what they need to transform their lives, regardless of race, gender, and/or sexual orientation.About Twenty Three Grand:Set on a sprawling second-floor outdoor deck hovering just above the bustle of the streets of Soho and Tribeca, Twenty Three Grand is a dining destination inspired by its garden-like atmosphere.About Eva Westphal:Eva Westphal is a singer-songwriter based in New York City. At 13, Eva began writing her own songs, combining her love for writing with her love for music. Her musical inspirations span from Fleetwood Mac's Stevie Nicks to Brandi Carlile and "Folklore"-era Taylor Swift. Distinguished musicians have commented on her unique voice, with Alicia Keys pointing out Eva's "pure tone" and Top 40 Radio (Mix 104.1) calling her "one to watch." EARMILK writes, “Framed by her classical training, Westphal’s pop sound is distinctly infused with a polished feel that sets her apart.”Passionate about mental health, Eva hopes that her music will help you love your authentic self. Her latest EP, “Proud of Me” centers around the lesbian experience, all while catering to a wide audience of LGBTQ+ listeners and allies.Please note (IMPORTANT):This event is 21+.Our events also mimic the environment of a bar (music, socializing, and may be held in venues that otherwise serve alcohol). If this is triggering, please do not attend.If you are pregnant or nursing, please consult with your healthcare provider before consuming any of our beverages. Your doctor can provide personalized advice based on your individual circumstances.Our beverages are not guaranteed to be Halal or Vegan. Upon request, we are happy to provide full ingredient lists.We understand that everyone has unique preferences and dietary requirements and our number one priority is respecting your individual choices. We encourage you to reach out to us with any questions or concerns that may not have been addressed here.By entering an event or program of Absence of Proof, you are entering an area where photography, audio and video recording may occur.Your entry and presence on the event premises constitutes your consent to be photographed, filmed, and/or otherwise recorded and to the release, publication, exhibition, or reproduction of any and all recorded media of your appearance, voice, and name for any purpose whatsoever in perpetuity in connection with Absence of Proof and its initiatives, including, by way of example only, use on websites, in social media, news and advertising.By entering the event premises, you waive and release any claims you may have related to the use of recorded media of you at the event, including, without limitation, any right to inspect or approve the photo, video or audio recording of you, any claims for invasion of privacy, violation of the right of publicity, defamation, and copyright infringement or for any fees for use of such record media.You understand that all photography, filming and/or recording will be done in reliance on this consent. If you do not agree to the foregoing, please do not enter the event premises.

AOP x Release Foundation Zero-Proof Party

Absence of Proof &amp; Ice Cold Club present an afternoon of breath work, a cold plunge, healthy lunch &amp; mocktails!&nbsp;About Ice Cold Club: Purposefully stress the nervous system to better handle stress in your everyday life — after taking you through a breath work experience to prepare you to handle the stress of the ice, Nike Trainer and XPT Coach Lauren Schramm will guide you through a 3 to 6-min exposure in the tubs out on the roof. We'll have snacks from Urban Vegan Kitchen &amp; unlimited Mocktails from Curious Elixirs &amp; Mingle Mocktails, non-alcoholic beer from Peroni, and more! See you there! Please note (IMPORTANT):This event is 21+.All drinks offered will be below 0.5% ABV (non-alcoholic). Some drinks will utilize non-alcoholic spirits that mimic the taste and aroma of alcohol, without the intoxicating effects. If you are in recovery or are potentially triggered by the taste of alcohol, please do not consume these beverages. If you are pregnant or nursing, please consult with your healthcare provider before consuming any of our beverages. Your doctor can provide personalized advice based on your individual circumstances.Our beverages are not guaranteed to be Halal or Vegan. Upon request, we are happy to provide full ingredient lists.We understand that everyone has unique preferences and dietary requirements and our number one priority is respecting your individual choices. We encourage you to reach out to us with any questions or concerns that may not have been addressed here.

Breath Work, Ice Bath, & Rooftop Mocktail Party

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AOP in the news :)

Welcome to Thirsty Thursday collaboration between Sotto Social Club and Absence of Proof.  They'll be unlimited non-alcoholic cocktails, welcome wines from Surley, non-alcoholic beers from Peroni, great people, a Dj, you know the deal!

See you soon!

xx

Sotto Social Club x Absence of Proof 

Experience a unique healing journey combining powerful breathing techniques with biodynamic movement and lively music.

This integrated breathwork practice combines multiple traditions of breath awareness with deep intention work to use the power of your breath and awareness to shift into altered states of consciousness.

Our practice will oxygenate the body and activate different areas of the brain to clear suppressed emotions more through stagnant energy, and influence creative productivity.  This breathwork journey brings attention and intention to our innate creative energy helping us to relax the body, remember our power, and revive our personal potential. 

We are so excited to be joined by Alison Ziegler who is an experienced Advanced Breathwork Facilitator, Reiki Master, and Life and Success Coach.  With a passion for helping others transform their lives through the calendar, Allison creates planners and journaling resources to guide you through each new month, season, and mood phase of life.  She will be providing free New Moon Journals for group journaling after our breathwork session.

Thank you to Surely wine's for providing our non-alcoholic wines for the evening. 

7:45 - welcome bubbles from Surely wines
8:00 - breathwork experience
9:00 - non-alcoholic cocktail reception and guided  new moon journaling (journals provided and unlimited cocktails included in your ticket)
10:00 - goodnight!

Breathwork & Nightcap

Welcome to Spring!  Join Seedlip, Absence of Proof, and 11:22 Events for an afternoon of non-alcoholic cocktails and floral arrangements!  

Included in your ticket:
- 3 non-alcoholic cocktails featuring Seedlip 
- bouquet making class (make your own bouquet to take home!) by 11:22 Events
- small bites from Sisters 

We'll see you there!

Sunday Florals - Non-alcoholic cocktails & bouquet class

We're back at Sotto Social Club underneath Gelso & Grand for the launch of our Thirsty Thursday monthly series!  Join us for an evening of unlimited non-alcoholic cocktails, an amazing DJ, and good vibes all around.



Thirsty Thursday 

Absence of Proof & Baby Grand are excited to bring you a night of Karaoke & non-alcoholic cocktails!  

We have two, two hour karaoke sessions available!

Included in your ticket:
- unlimited non-alcoholic cocktails featuring Ritual Zero Proof spirits for your time window
- unlimited karaoke 

See you there, let's party!

Absence of Proof Karaoke Night @ Baby Grand

To celebrate the kick-off of Women's History Month, we're celebrating all of the amazing womxn in our lives with a night of dancing and cocktails at Sotto Lounge, underneath Gelso & Grand!  

The DJ will be spinning music by incredible female artists & we'll have unlimited non-alcoholic cocktails!

Can't wait to celebrate the divine feminine in all of us!  All genders welcome!  

Who Run the World? Girls!

Welcome to the Absence of Proof Speakeasy Residency in Maisie Below.  We are so excited you’re joining us.

Absence of Proof provides nightlife options for those taking a night, month, or lifetime off of drinking.  We feature a full menu of non-alcoholic cocktails, wine, and beer.  

We offer two event times per night.  Please be sure to arrive on time as when your specified event time is over we will have another seating coming in.  Please enter through the door that says "632 Hudson St."

Included in your ticket:
Unlimited drinks for your two hour event window

Please note:
Our event is 21+

We are a non-alcoholic bar, meaning all of the options we serve are below 0.5% ABV.  We also have completely alcohol-free options, all of which are marked on the menu.  We do not guarantee our drinks are certified Halal, Vegan, or Gluten-Free.  We are happy to provide ingredient lists on request and make custom beverages to meet your dietary needs.  Thank you and please feel free to ask us any questions!

The Speakeasy - 2/24/23

The Speakeasy - 2/17/23

The Speakeasy - 2/10/23

The Speakeasy - 2/3/23

Welcome to the Absence of Proof x  Sèchey Dry January Speakeasy Residency.  We are so excited you’re joining us.

Absence of Proof provides nightlife options for those taking a night, month, or lifetime off of drinking.  We feature a full menu of non-alcoholic cocktails, wine, and beer.  We are so excited to be partnering with non-alcoholic retailer,  Sèchey, on a residency in their gorgeous speakeasy in the West Village.

We offer two event times per night.  Please be sure to arrive on time or a bit early (the store upstairs is open for mingling and shopping!) as when your specified event time is over we will have another seating coming in. 

Included in your ticket:
Unlimited drinks for your two hour event window
10% Discount in-store or online at Sèchey

A special thank you to Ritual Zero Proof, who is our official spirit sponsor for Dry January.

Please note:
Our event is 21+

We are a non-alcoholic bar, meaning we serve options below 0.5% ABV.  We also have 0.0% options, all of which are marked on the menu.  We do not guarantee our drinks are certified Halal, Vegan, or Gluten-Free.  We are happy to provide ingredient lists on request and make custom beverages to meet your dietary needs.  Thank you and please feel free to ask us any questions!

The Speakeasy - 1/27/23

The Speakeasy - 1/20/23

The Speakeasy - 1/13/23

Absence of Proof is excited to be partnering with Ritual Zero Proof and Spirited Away on a cocktail making evening.  There will be mingling, food, a Q&A with Douglas (founder of Spirited Away) and Elizabeth (Founder of Absence of Proof) and a non-alcoholic cocktail making class.

This is a free event.   The first 36 attendees to RSVP will receive a Ritual x Betty Buzz Mason Jar to take home!

Cocktail Making Class

Welcome to the Absence of Proof x  Sèchey Dry January Speakeasy Residency.  We are so excited you’re joining us.

Absence of Proof provides nightlife options for those taking a night, month, or lifetime off of drinking.  We feature a full menu of non-alcoholic cocktails, wine, and beer.  We are so excited to be partnering with non-alcoholic retailer,  Sèchey, on a residency in their gorgeous speakeasy in the West Village.

We offer two event times per night.  Please be sure to arrive on time or a bit early (the store upstairs is open for mingling and shopping!) as when your specified event time is over we will have another seating coming in. 

Included in your ticket:
Unlimited drinks for your two hour event window
10% Discount in-store or online at Sèchey

A special thank you to Ritual Zero Proof, who is our official spirit sponsor for Dry January.

Please note:
Our event is 21+

We are a non-alcoholic bar, meaning we serve options below 0.5% ABV.  We also have 0.0% options, all of which are marked on the menu.  We do not guarantee our drinks are certified Halal, Vegan, or Gluten-Free.  We are happy to provide ingredient lists on request and make custom beverages to meet your dietary needs.  Thank you and please feel free to ask us any questions!


The Speakeasy - 1/6/23

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Edible Manhattan Feature

Welcome to Absence of Proof!  We are a non-alcoholic pop-up bar that seeks to provide nightlife options for anyone taking a night, week, or lifetime off of drinking.  We feature a full menu of non-alcoholic cocktails.  

For our November event, we are so excited to celebrate our amazing community with a Friendsgiving game night.  Included in your ticket is an open bar (as many drinks as you’d like) and small bites catered by Kobrick coffee.  

We section our events into two time slots to ensure lines for drinks don’t get too long. 

This event is 21+

See you soon!

Absence of Proof Friendsgiving 


Welcome to the Absence of Proof sober October residency.  We’re kicking off Halloween weekend right with a costume party!

We are a non-alcoholic pop-up bar that seeks to provide nightlife options for those who are taking a night, week, month, or lifetime off of drinking.

We offer a full menu of non-alcoholic cocktails, beer, wine, and functional beverages.  Food is also available through Kobrick Coffee.

The arrival times are simply guides to help ensure lines for drinks don’t get too long all at once.  If your plans change and you’d like to come before or after your ticket time, no worries, come anytime between 8-12 :)!   See you soon xx

*two drinks are included with your ticket, one canned drink and one cocktail*

Thank you to Ritual Zero Proof who will be building their own bar within Kobrick! So excited. 

This event is 21+

Absence of Proof Residency - Halloween Party 🎃 

Welcome to the Absence of Proof sober October residency.  We are a non-alcoholic pop-up bar that seeks to provide nightlife options for those who are taking a night, week, month, or lifetime off of drinking.

We offer a full menu of non-alcoholic cocktails, beer, wine, and functional beverages.  Food is also available through Kobrick Coffee.

The start times are a guide to ensure the bar lines don’t get too long, but your ticket will scan at any time and you are welcome to stay as long as you’d like!

*two drinks are included with your ticket, one canned drink and one cocktail*

Thank you to Ritual Zero Proof who will be building their own bar within Kobrick! So excited. 

This event is 21+


Absence of Proof Residency- 10/22

Welcome to the Absence of Proof sober October residency.  We are a non-alcoholic pop-up bar that seeks to provide nightlife options for those who are taking a night, week, month, or lifetime off of drinking.

We offer a full menu of non-alcoholic cocktails, beer, wine, and functional beverages.  Food is also available through Kobrick Coffee.

As space is limited, we are sectioning this evening into two separate event times to ensure lines don’t get too long and there’s space for everyone.  If you’d like to come early or stay after your event time, totally fine! We just ask that you hang in the outdoor party area.  See you soon xx

*two drinks are included with your ticket, one canned drink and one cocktail*

Thank you to Ritual Zero Proof who will be building their own bar within Kobrick! So excited. 

This event is 21+


Absence of Proof Residency - 10/15


Welcome to the Absence of Proof sober October residency.  We are a non-alcoholic pop-up bar that seeks to provide nightlife options for those who are taking a night, week, month, or lifetime off of drinking.

This is the first event in the series and it is our founders 25th birthday, so we’re going off!! See you soon 🎉

We offer a full menu of non-alcoholic cocktails, beer, wine, and functional beverages.  Food is also available through Kobrick Coffee.

As space is limited, we are sectioning this evening into two separate event times to ensure lines don’t get too long and there’s space for everyone.  If you’d like to come early or stay after your event time, totally fine! We just ask that you hang in the outdoor party area.  See you soon xx

*two drinks are included with your ticket, one canned drink and one cocktail*

Thank you to Ritual Zero Proof who will be building their own bar within Kobrick! So excited. 

This event is 21+

Absence of Proof Residency - 10/8

Welcome to the second chapter of absence of proof.  We are a non-alcoholic pop-up bar that seeks to provide nightlife options for those who are taking a week, night, or lifetime off of drinking.

We offer a full menu of non-alcoholic cocktails, beer, wine, and functional beverages.  Food is also available through Kobrick Coffee.

As space is limited, we are sectioning this evening into two separate event times to ensure lines don’t get too long and there’s space for everyone.  If you’d like to come early or stay after your event time, totally fine! We just ask that you hang in the outdoor party area.  See you soon xx

*two drinks are included with your ticket*

Thank you to our sponsors: Ritual Zero proof, Spiritless, Slide, Surely, Pathfinder, Flyers, and more!

This event is 21+

Absence of Proof NYC

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